Establish and stay in contact with detectives. (Advice/tips on how to interact)
If the lead detective is unknown, call the police department and ask for their information. Get the case number. Call regularly for updates.
Focus on getting facts. Ask questions. Have information explained. Take notes. Record the conversation. You may be emotional and not remember everything.
Contact local and state representatives. (Create a form letter you can send to each. Provide your contact info. Ask them specifically what you would like for them to do to help. I.e. contact the prosecutor’s office, etc.)
Contact advocacy groups (Create a form letter you can send to each. Provide your contact info. Ask them specifically what you would like for them to do to help.)
The importance of friends and family coming together is immeasurable. Be there for each other. Besides celebrating the life of your loved one, use the time to organize. Be proactive. Get a call list going. Decide how to stay in contact. Who should be making contacts.
Inform the press.
Don’t give up! (Be prepared to spend a long time -years- fighting for justice.)
Other tips…
Stay organized. Get a notebook, folder, etc to keep all info in one area.
Be prepared to share contact info (for attorneys, police, etc.) with others repeatedly. Keep it in an easy to find location.
**** If you want to file a complaint against the police department, be forewarned… Per the ACLU, “If there are criminal charges pending or being investigated, please consult with an attorney before filing a complaint with the police since statements made in any complaint could be used against you in the criminal proceedings.” ****
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